Sex-Positive Community!
At Consensual Events, founded by Le Organizer, we organize inclusive, diverse, and authentic events for the sex-positive community primarily in New York City. Each event is unique and hosted in an exclusive venue. We provide an alternative space for those who practice one of the many forms of non-monogamy. We are committed to creating safer environments to serve those who are part of the ever-growing sex-positive movement. Bring your sex-positive attitude and make new friends from an array of different social backgrounds.
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The Core Law
The Core Law: Explicit & Enthusiastic Consent
The Opt-In Standard: Touch, intimacy, and interaction are strictly opt-in. Silence is never consent. Subtext is never consent. Flirting, choice of attire, past interactions, or relationship status are never consent. Consent must be verbal, conscious, specific, and enthusiastically given before any boundary is crossed.
The Clarity Rule: You may never proceed with an interaction if you have any ambiguity regarding a partner’s frame of mind. If an individual appears hesitant, unsure, or altered by alcohol or substances, you must step back.
Continuous Fluidity: Consent is a continuous conversation and can be modified or completely withdrawn at any single second. If a partner changes their mind, requests a shift in pacing, or utilizes a designated "Safe Word," all action must cease immediately and gracefully.
02 — Sovereignty
The No-Touch Baseline: Verbal permission must be obtained before any physical contact occurs. This applies universally to the dance floor, the social lounges, the transit vehicles, and the play spaces alike. "May I touch you?" or "May I join you?" must precede any physical proximity.
The Looker Policy: Voyeurism is a valid form of participation in sex-positive spaces, but hovering or staring intrusively can disrupt the energy. If you wish to observe an interaction, you must maintain a respectful physical distance. Once a scene is in motion, it is strictly closed to outside disruption—entering, interrupting, or projecting into an active scene is prohibited to protect the flow and immersion of the participants. Our Consent Advocates (CAs) are permanently stationed directly by the play areas to preserve this boundary; if you are unsure whether a space is open for observers, please check in with the nearest CA before positioning yourself.
03 — Privacy
Absolute Privacy & Digital Lockdown
Absolute privacy starts the moment you walk in. Personal cameras are not allowed, and phones are restricted to designated areas to protect community members.
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Zero Photography / Zero Recording:
To safeguard the personal and professional lives of our members, all events operate under a strict digital lockdown. Personal cameras and mobile devices are strictly prohibited within active event perimeters.
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The Transit
Perimeter:
For events featuring our private transportation networks—such as our annual flagship experience, Aphrodisiaque—this privacy policy extends explicitly to our Mercedes Sprinter transit hubs and chauffeur fleets. Mobile devices may only be used for text and call communication; cameras must remain completely put away, and no photos or videos may be captured from the moment you board our vehicles without consent.
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Confidentiality:
What occurs within the gates of a Consensual Events space stays within those gates. Disclosing the identities, orientations, or activities of any guest outside the community constitutes an immediate breach of trust.
04 — Accountability
Accountability, Space Keepers, & Reporting
Our dedicated Consent Advocates (CAs) are permanently stationed across our venues and play spaces in real time to actively preserve comfort, and serve as an immediate point of safety. From swift on-site intervention and diplomatic ejections to our post-event incident reviews, we uphold an absolute zero-tolerance policy for boundary violations to ensure our collective container remains protected.
Active Consent Advocates (CAs)
Every event is fully staffed by trained, dedicated, and clearly identifiable Consent Advocates (CAs) who do not participate in play. They are stationed strategically across the venue—with a permanent presence directly alongside our active play areas—solely to monitor comfort, enforce boundaries, preserve the flow of the space, and serve as your immediate point of safety.
Real-Time Intervention:
If you experience a boundary crossing, witness predatory behavior, or feel uncomfortable at any point, notify a Consent Advocate (CAs), a door coordinator, or a driver immediately. Our team is fully equipped to handle on-site interventions, diplomatic mediations, and immediate ejections discreetly and instantly.
Post-Event Incident Review:
Understanding that processing an event takes time, we maintain an anonymous, secure Incident Reporting Form via our digital dashboard. Every report undergoes a rigorous, unbiased review by our core leadership team.
Accountability Protocols:
We believe in a culture of accountability. Our responses to reported harm operate on a definitive spectrum based on intent, impact, and accountability:
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06 — FAQs
FAQ
Hospitality
On the first floor, we have two bathrooms with showers and a secure area where valuable items and clothing can be stored. This is a BYOB event. The venue has a selection of top-shelf offerings If you cannot BYOB.
What We Expect From You
Have a sex-positive attitude and abide by our code of conduct. Get consent every time, be courteous to fellow attendees, and don't forget to smile if you see something that does not look right, say something. Our consent advocates will be spread throughout the venue, and our security will always be at the main entrance.
Our Commitment
We're committed to providing you with a safer space. We accept everyone regardless of their level of experience, relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Take any concerns or incidents you have seriously.
Are Consensual Events only for individuals practicing non-monogamy?
While Consensual Events does provide a welcoming space for individuals who practice various forms of non-monogamy, our events are open to anyone who embraces a sex-positive attitude and respects enthusiastic consent. We believe in inclusivity and diversity, welcoming individuals from all walks of life to join our community and build meaningful connections.
Are the events safe and confidential?
Every effort is made to make the event space safe from our licensed security at the main entrance to our consent advocates, who monitor each event.
What can I expect from a typical Consensual Event?
A warm welcome and comfort. An ethnically diverse, body-positive crowd of different sexual orientations and ages. You'll meet non-monogamists, nudists, exhibitionists, kinksters, and seasoned hedonists.