Returning June 2026

Débauche

Débauche is an ethnically diverse event created by Le Organizer to serve the sex-positive community. If there were an award ceremony for the most diverse play party in NYC, this event would win! It's an event for those with an excessive appetite for pleasure! We're the exception and unconventional at Débauche. Bring your sex-positive attitude with you and make new friends from an array of different social backgrounds.

Dresscode

Attire

We all express ourselves differently when it comes to the clothing we wear. We allow flexibility; however, there are items we do not accept, and you'll be refused entry for not abiding by our dress code. Get creative and dress to impress: Fetish attire, latex, dapper, lingerie, cosplay or nudity.

The following items are prohibited: No Sweats, no T-shirts, no polo shirts, no Hoodies of any kind, Baseball caps, construction boots of any kind, or winter hats. We will not accept any sports brand clothing or skate sneakers. The only acceptable shirts are collared dress shirts that button down the neck. They can be short or long-sleeved—no baggy denim. Click the red dress code button below for examples.

Philosophy

The Débauche Experience

Socializing First: Build Meaningful Connections

We remove until only the essential remains. Nothing is added that the piece does not need.

The Vibe: Big House Parties with a Touch of Kink

The Vibe: Big House Parties with a Touch of Kink

If you like big house parties, this one is for you! While we are not a BDSM event, we make every effort to provide all you need to feel comfortable, including the odd piece of kink furniture for all you kinksters.

Our Legacy: A Well-Established Community

Created in 2017, Débauche is a well-established event that brings together an average of 140 guests per month. It is the ideal, trusted space to explore, connect, and feel entirely at home.

What to Expect

The Débauche Experience: A Look Inside

To put things into perspective, it will feel like attending a super nice event in a big house. First, you'll experience A warm welcome and comfort. A varied selection of background music in each section of the venue—an ethnically diverse, body-positive crowd of different sexual orientations and ages. You'll meet non-monogamists, nudists, exhibitionists, kinksters, and seasoned hedonists. Then, as the house fills up to capacity, you'll be encapsulated by the vibrant energy. The house has five levels in total, plus a rooftop and backyard. With up to 140 guests, we'll use three levels plus the backyard and rooftop. With attendance above 140 - 180, we'll use all five levels. You'll never experience overcrowding at Débauche as it can comfortably accommodate 200.

Milestones

Entry & Tickets

Débauche is an ethnically diverse event created by Le Organizer to serve the sex-positive community. If there were an award ceremony for the most diverse play party in NYC, this event would win! It's an event for those with an excessive appetite for pleasure! We're the exception and unconventional at Débauche. Bring your sex-positive attitude with you and make new friends from an array of different social backgrounds.

*Consent must be agreed upon between all willing participants for any act. You are responsible for deciding whether or not to give consent. You are responsible when it comes to asking for consent.

*Consent must be agreed upon between all willing participants for any act. You are responsible for deciding whether or not to give consent. You are responsible when it comes to asking for consent.

Hospitality

On the first floor, we have two bathrooms with showers and a secure area where valuable items and clothing can be stored. This is a BYOB event. The venue has a selection of top-shelf offerings If you cannot BYOB.

What We Expect From You

Have a sex-positive attitude and abide by our code of conduct. Get consent every time, be courteous to fellow attendees, and don't forget to smile if you see something that does not look right, say something. Our consent advocates will be spread throughout the venue, and our security will always be at the main entrance.

Our Commitment

We're committed to providing you with a safer space. We accept everyone regardless of their level of experience, relationship status, gender, or sexual orientation. Take any concerns or incidents you have seriously.

Are Consensual Events only for individuals practicing non-monogamy?

While Consensual Events does provide a welcoming space for individuals who practice various forms of non-monogamy, our events are open to anyone who embraces a sex-positive attitude and respects enthusiastic consent. We believe in inclusivity and diversity, welcoming individuals from all walks of life to join our community and build meaningful connections.

Are the events safe and confidential?

Every effort is made to make the event space safe from our licensed security at the main entrance to our consent advocates, who monitor each event.

What can I expect from a typical Consensual Event?

A warm welcome and comfort. An ethnically diverse, body-positive crowd of different sexual orientations and ages. You'll meet non-monogamists, nudists, exhibitionists, kinksters, and seasoned hedonists.

Find us!

Location

The full address is detailed at the very bottom of the second email you have received. Scroll to the bottom of the email, and you'll see it under "Additional Information." We are a six-minute walk from Wilson Avenue station on the L train. If you are driving, you'll need to give sufficient time to find parking.