About
Débauche is an ethnically diverse event created by Le Organizer to serve the sex-positive community. If there were an award ceremony for the most diverse play party in NYC, this event would win! It's an event for those with an excessive appetite for pleasure! We're the exception and unconventional at Débauche. Bring your sex-positive attitude with you and make new friends from an array of different social backgrounds.
At Débauche, we place more emphasis on the social aspect so that everyone can build meaningful relationships with the option of enjoying consensual sex with enthusiastic consent. If you've been in search of that 'friend' or 'group' to attend other events with, you've found the perfect social setting with up to 140 attendees per month. We make every effort to provide you with all you need to feel comfortable. We are not a BDSM event. However, we will have the odd piece of kink furniture for all you kinksters. If you like big house parties, this one is for you! Débauche is a well-established event created in 2017 with an average of 140 guests.
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Attire
We all express ourselves differently when it comes to the clothing we wear. We allow flexibility; however, there are items we do not accept, and you'll be refused entry for not abiding by our dress code. Get creative and dress to impress: Fetish attire, latex, dapper, lingerie, cosplay or nudity.
The following items are prohibited: No Sweats, no T-shirts, no polo shirts, no Hoodies of any kind, Baseball caps, construction boots of any kind, or winter hats. We will not accept any sports brand clothing or skate sneakers. The only acceptable shirts are collared dress shirts that button down the neck. They can be short or long-sleeved—no baggy denim. Click the red dress code button below for examples.
Location
The full address is detailed at the very bottom of the second email you have received. Scroll to the bottom of the email, and you'll see it under "Additional Information." We are a six-minute walk from Wilson Avenue station on the L train. If you are driving, you'll need to give sufficient time to find parking.
What to Expect
To put things into perspective, it will feel like attending a super nice event in a big house. First, you'll experience A warm welcome and comfort. A varied selection of background music in each section of the venue—an ethnically diverse, body-positive crowd of different sexual orientations and ages. You'll meet non-monogamists, nudists, exhibitionists, kinksters, and seasoned hedonists. Then, as the house fills up to capacity, you'll be encapsulated by the vibrant energy. The house has five levels in total, plus a rooftop and backyard. With up to 140 guests, we'll use three levels plus the backyard and rooftop. With attendance above 140 - 180, we'll use all five levels. You'll never experience overcrowding at Débauche as it can comfortably accommodate 200.
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Are Consensual Events only for individuals practicing non-monogamy?While Consensual Events does provide a welcoming space for individuals who practice various forms of non-monogamy, our events are open to anyone who embraces a sex-positive attitude and respects enthusiastic consent. We believe in inclusivity and diversity, welcoming individuals from all walks of life to join our community and build meaningful connections.
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Are the events safe and confidential?Every effort is made to make the event space safe from our licensed security at the main entrance to our consent advocates, who monitor each event.
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What can I expect from a typical Consensual Event?A warm welcome and comfort. An ethnically diverse, body-positive crowd of different sexual orientations and ages. You'll meet non-monogamists, nudists, exhibitionists, kinksters, and seasoned hedonists.
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How can I become a part of Consensual Events?You can become apart of our events by registering using the signup page to receive our weekly emails.
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What is your privacy policy?We respect the privacy of all of our attendees. We’ll never share or distribute any of your personal data.
Consent must be agreed upon between all willing participants for any act. You are responsible for deciding whether or not to give consent. You are responsible when it comes to asking for consent.
Entry & Tickets
To any women experiencing financial hardship who still want to come out and have a blissful time, send Elizabeth an email at for a reduced-rate ticket.
Women, fem presenting, and non-binary folx are welcome to purchase Duo tickets to attend as couples. Couples of all combinations and formats are encouraged to utilize the duo ticket option. Those attending as a couple must arrive together and leave together. Male and masculine presenting people must request to attend via email if they want to attend solo. DO NOT purchase a ticket without emailing first. If you do, you will NOT be refunded. Our security will refuse you entry regardless of the ticket purchased if you do otherwise. We've found that having too many single men/male presenting people creates an uncomfortable environment for women, fem presenting, and non-binary folx. Those to whom this does not apply can put Femme, N/A, etc., into the prompt box.